Why Macha Mexico?
“We have to do something gay while we’re here.”
My friend and travel companion Ariel was insistent. We were both visiting Mexico City for the first time, a couple of twenty-something gringa dykes sucking up as much sightseeing and fun as we could in a week. As the (pseudo) Spanish-speaker and more experienced traveler of the two of us, I had been booking our economical hotels, planning our itinerary, and asking for directions when we were lost–mostly successfully. When it came to navigating gay life in Mexico City, I was at a loss.
The guidebooks I brought with me, Moon Handbooks Mexico City by Christopher Humphrey and the good-ole Lonely Planet, while extremely helpful in navigating many other aspects of the city, left me guessing at what was fun, safe, and interesting for a macha to do in the D.F. The guidebooks themselves admitted that it was difficult to keep up to date when bars and clubs closed and moved so quickly.
The descriptions of clubs in the guidebooks were also woefully inadequate. Would I feel comfortable at these bars? Would they welcome women? What type of scene was a given bar catering to? Most of the “gay and lesbian” listings were for men’s venues, and although some alluded to a “ladies night,” I was unsure how to find out more information. The clerk at our hotel would likely not be able to give us an insider’s opinion about this scene.
It was through sheer coincidence that my friend and I were able to connect with an amazing group of women who gave us more than a glimpse of some of the diversity of lesbian life in Mexico City. At the bar of the Hotel Virreyes, we stumbled into the after party of a gay and lesbian cultural festival that had been taking place in the lobby. Never ones to shy away from a crowd of slightly inebriated lesbians, we walked over and struck up a conversation. Our new friends were kind enough to adopt us for the rest of the week, inviting us to their lesbian outings, dinners, and parties, and changing the course of our travels for the better. Since then, I have returned to Mexico City many times and have had the pleasure of exploring an ever widening variety of what the city has to offer.
This website is an attempt to make more accessible to English-speaking visitors some of the wonderful venues, resources, and events that exist for queer women in Mexico City.
There are reviews of restaurants, bars, nightclubs, hotels and other venues that might be of interest to the lesbian traveler. Some places are explicitly lesbian establishments, and some are just worth knowing about.
How to use this site
To use the site, you can browse through entries chronologically, search for a specific term, or search using one of the general categories or more specific tags.
Categories are more general ways of organizing entries; hold the mouse over a specific category in the list in the right-hand margin to see a brief description of what each category offers.
Specific entries also have multiple tags that allow you to search for venues or events by neighborhood (the Zona Rosa), by night of the week, or by a more specific marker. Because we are foodies, some specific foods and beverages also appear as tags, for those searching for the perfect michelada or vegetarian chiles en nogada.
In addition to reviews, this blog contains journalistic articles about events, neighborhoods, and issues related to life (and, specifically, queer life) in Mexico City, as well as tips and suggestions for how to navigate Mexico City as a non-chilanga. These can be found using the “articles” category.
A note on the M-word
The word macha roughly translates to dyke in English; at times it can imply simply lesbianism, at times masculinity, unfortunately at times a derogatory version of either. Of course, “you fucking dyke” means something very different than “hey, we’re going to the dyke bar to watch Xena.”
Unlike dyke, which has more or less become normalized in queer culture thanks to Alison Bechdel and others who have publicly and joyfully embraced the word, macha is not widespread in Mexican lesbian culture. We have chosen to use it here to follow in the tradition of our group of chilanga lesbian friends, who use macha casually and constantly in an effort to reclaim and celebrate all of the power and fabulousness that lies within the word.
Further, in our circle of friends, the word macha has now taken on a life of its own, spawning the verb machear (to dyke around, to hang out or keep busy as a fabulous lesbian), the affectionate diminuative machita, and the pun machidumbre (a large group of machas). (For a more thorough dictionary, please visit the Diccionario Panhispánico de Vocabulario Efímero, a blog entry by chilanga lesbian writer Artemisa Téllez.)
Feedback, contributions, and publicity
Please e-mail or leave comments if there are topics or venues you would like to read more about! We are open to suggestions about how to improve Macha Mexico.
Also, if you are interesting in writing a review or article for Macha Mexico, send us an e-mail with an excerpt from (or complete draft of) the piece you would like to write and some biographical information about yourself and your travels. Please note that we may want to edit your piece to better fit the style of the blog.
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Hola Anna,
What a pleasure to come across your website… I’d love to exchange swap notes with you on gay life in El DF.
I’m a gay man (former Californian — Bay Area) who now lives in Boston, but has a Mexican lover who lives in El DF, which I have been visiting 6-8 times a year for the past several years. I have found Mexico City to be enchanting, and very welcoming of gay gringos, or at least myself.
If you haven’t been to gay pride there, I STRONGLY recommend it. It is a blast, and frankly, at least on a par with San Francisco’s pride celebration. Several hundred thousand people show up from all parts of Mexico, and a few from other parts of the world. We all take over La Reforma, and march to El Zocalo, where a big party takes place in the afternoon.
This year is the 30th Marcha del Orgullo, and it takes place on 28 June 2008. Here’s the link for the Yahoo group who is organizing it: http://mx.groups.yahoo.com/group/OrgulloMexico/
I have thought of moving to El DF; perhaps you are of a similar mind?
Anyway, would love to chat some time. Drop me an e-mail if you are so inclined.
Fond Regards,
Kim G
Boston, MA
I’m so glad to discover this website. I am a gay man, living in Mexico City with my (also American) lover. We have both written books about Mexico City, and I admit I had a hard time getting information about lesbian events here. ‘Tiempo Libre’ magazine (out each Thursday) has a Gay section that is useful.
I will put your website in the new edition of my book and also on my blog. Thanks so much for this much-needed site.
Jim Johnston, Mexico City
Some links about our books–
http://www.mexicocitydf.blogspot.com
http://www.mexicocityfood.net
Thank you for your comment and for the helpful links! (Also, thanks for giving us a shout-out on your blog.)
We’ll be in touch about networking in the future!
Anna
This blog is totally going to get me fired! LOL I have spent the last hour going through it here at work and am already planning a trip in my head to Pie de la Cuestra. I think I’ll need to bone up on my Spanish. Thanks. This is mos def going on my blog roll.
Machas, machitas, what fun to find you on the web!
We’re machas en Morelia!
Read the blog–it’s not about machas, but it surely is about Mexico, and it’s written by an old macha. Put it on the blog roll!
Felicidades, felicidades a las tres de ustedes.
Yours in machisma…
Cristina
Hola me pueden recomendar un antro donde conocer chicas bi.
Gracias
Luis
Machisma, Machas, Machitas! I’m already in love with the terminology. I’ll join the many people above in complementing you on this informative, interesting & entertaining blog, which I’ll have to comb through more thoroughly when I’m not at work!
I’m deep into planning a trip through Mexico (well- starting in M. city and going south), Belize and Guatemala, which will start late July. I’m going to be travelling with my little brother, who can speak Spanish.
Reading through a few things here I’m now inspired to do three things… stay a little longer in Mexico city than I had originally intended, ditch my little brother somewhere where he can have his own fun and learn some more Spanish myself!
Cheers
Amy
Hola chavas,
Thanks for this terrific site. I, too, love Mexico City and am heading there for a stint in late August. I lived there in Spring 2002 and was trying to see what, if any, places were lezzie-friendly. After whole bunch of Hi5 teenage machas dated links and Out Travel articles, I found this lovely nook!
Anna, since we’re practically vecinas (I’m in Queens!), I’d loved to connect and chew the fat about Mexico and NYC. I’m pretty sure you have my email, if you’re so inclined.
Take it easy and congrats on the great blog,
Mo
Hey, Mo. I’m in Mexico City for the summer, but I’m happy to e-mail with you about dyke life here. Expect an e-mail and keep looking for updates!
Anna
Hi Anna,
Lucky! My trip can’t get here fast enough lemme tell ya. Thanks for the reply and I look forward to that email and those updates. I’m so living el DF vicariously through your blog. =)
Mo
Hi,
I’ve just discovered your website (through googling “lesbian mexico city”.) We live in Chapala (Jalisco) and will be visiting Mexico City for a week at the end of August. We’re an older lesbian couple (50’s) — any info on any hangouts for us?
Thanks!
Thank you soo much for all the info. 4 of us California queer mujeres are traveling to Mexico City in Oct and we will use info in your blog to navigate our way thru the city. Please let us know if there are any other websites/books that you can recommend to us. Thanks!
great blog
dear machamexico etc,
yay we are so so glad we randomly came across your blog after searching “queer mexico city” in google. we are visiting a friend there this january-february, but alas the friend is straight and what are two queers to do for a month?? thanks for the info. if you know of any fun shows or events happening in late jan and feb, please let us know… and if y’all are around mexico city at this time, come hang out!
xo
Por favor, he estado vuscando o si alguien me pudiera ayudar o darme una direccion exsacta, tengo entendido de un lugar en el D.F. “La Condesa” (que ayudan a personas y ninos) que son VIH+ . Quisiera comunicarme con alguien del personal de esta clinica, el motivo es que tengo unos pocos antirovirales (KALETRA) que lla no uso (y la fecha se esta caducando) que son para controlar esta enfermedad, seria una lastima el tener que tirar este medicamento, sabiendo que alguien lo pudiera usar, yo radico en EE.UU. Chicago, por muchos anos.
arellano-roberto@hotmail.com GRACIAS…